Curhat Colongan

Fortune Telling

January is the time of the year when people look for clues for what may happen in 2007. For now, maybe it’s too little too late, but when a friend drops by to visit me at the office for lunch, that made me thinking of something. She told me that her fortuneteller described how 2006 hadn’t been a good one, and that things would improve next year. Other revelations included she would start her own business later in her life, and would have to continue working until the normal retirement age.

In hindsight, it was quite true. She was separated from her boyfriend for over sixFpth7tk3mw
months because of work, which hadn’t helped either with ridiculous workload and demanding bosses. About two weeks ago she resigned from the job after accepting an offer from a better organization.

I’ve never really got myself hooked into fortune telling. I admit reading the horoscopes every now and then out of curiosity, but have never really gone overboard adorning myself with lucky color of the day. Personal fortune reading can be incorrect – if doctors can arrive at a wrong diagnosis, surely these psychics can misinterpret the road ahead.

I wonder if it may be worthwhile getting a second opinion. I had my annual checkup the other night and my dentist said my teeth were fine, even though my gumlines had receded a little too much that I suspected it might be first sign of gingivitis. He insisted it was normal for my age.

I still believe my pinball machine theory (blog entry "Life As A Pinball Machine", January 22, 2007). Just like in those plane crashes there was always a person who happened to miss the flight by chance and therefore they didn’t die, but I wonder if they had been onboard perhaps the accidents might not have occurred.

Can someone really have the ability to zoom into your future life and reveal every major course of action?

Curhat Colongan, Music

This one is a question for you………

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If you’re not the one then why does my soul feel glad today?
If you’re not the one then why does my hand fit yours this way?
If you are not mine then why does your heart return my call?
If you are not mine would I have the strength to stand at all

I never know what the future brings
but I know you’re here with me now
We’ll make it through
and I hope you are the one I share my life with…

If I don’t need you then why am I crying on my bed?
If I don’t need you then why does your name resound in my head?
If you’re not for me then why does this distance maim my life?
If you’re not for me then why do I dream of you as my wife?

I don’t know why you’re so far away
But I know that this much is true
We’ll make it through
And I hope you are the one I share my life with
And I wish that you could be the one I die with
And I praying you’re the one I build my home with
I hope I love you all my life

‘Cause I miss you, body and soul so strong that it takes my breath away
And I breathe you into my heart and pray for the strength to stand today
‘Cause I love you, whether it’s wrong or right
And though I can’t be with you tonight
You know my heart is by your side

I don’t wanna run away but I can’t take it, I don’t understand
If I’m not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am?
Is there any way I can stay in your arms?

* titipan temans… kok pas ya?? xixixixixi…. =P

Curhat Colongan, Music

Ironic

I kept getting a past hit by Alanis Morissette stuck in my head:

"Well life has a funny way of sneaking up on you
when you think everything’s okay and everything’s going right
and life has a funny way of helping you out
when you think everything’s gone wrong and
everything blows up in your face"


Will you end up living a better life worrying about how things will not turn out fine?

It got me thinking about expectations and experience. In services marketing, the feeling of satisfaction comes about when a customer experiences better than what he expects, and vice versa.

After all, is life merely about meeting your expectations? Say, I’m picky about men when it comes to relationships – thus I’ve been single, and I don’t seem to be satisfied.

But does it mean I should start worrying about that, in essence reducing my expectations so that the chance of being satisfied will increase?

*gue yang lagi capek ma pikiran-pikiran gue sendiri… hiks

Curhat Colongan

shout outs to the single-ers

I have several single friends out there that read this blog religiously and I wanted to direct you to a few STC quotes that were shared with me more than 2 years ago (gasp!) when I got myself out of something:

1) Relationships have been on the decline ever since women came out of the cave, looked around and said, "this isn’t so bad."

2) No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you’ll never get through it without your friends.

3) Maybe some women aren’t meant to be tamed. Maybe they’re supposed to run wild until they find someone — just as wild — to run with.

Bottom line: Whatever quote works for you… or doesn’t… you aren’t defined by your intimate relationships. Finding yourself after 2 years, 4 years, 7 years together can be daunting…but it’s also fun. Having good girlfriends in the mix doesn’t hurt either.

Best solutions: Go dancing with your girlfriends and/or have dinner parties with loads of wine and friendly faces. Rebound boys/girls aren’t so bad either.

Sorry kalo agak sedikit basi.. hihihihi..
Gara-gara bantuin acara nikahan one of a good friend seharian tadi, the questions about being a single lil bit disturbing my mind up till now!!!….
Hwuaaaaah… capek deeeeeh!

For Conny and Budi, happy marriage yaaaaa… may u both live happily ever after…

Curhat Colongan

o·ver·in·dulge

o·ver·in·dulge (vr-n-dlj)

v. o·ver·in·dulged, o·ver·in·dulg·ing, o·ver·in·dulg·es
1. To indulge (a desire, craving, or habit) to excess: overindulging a fondness for chocolate.
2. To indulge (a person) excessively: overindulges his children.
To indulge in something to excess.

I
think I over-indulged many times over this weekend. Company, visitors,
music, eating dinners out, walks for breakfasts and staying up way too
late. I’m paying for it today. Its only noonish and I’m tired and ready
for a nap. I’m learning to do what I want, when I want, and indulge in
what I wish. It’s tough sometimes being yourself out in the open and
letting people see you let your hair down, but I’m starting to just
feels right for me….and worrying less about everyone else. Thanks to
all who participated in this weekends events.