Curhat Colongan

shout outs to the single-ers

I have several single friends out there that read this blog religiously and I wanted to direct you to a few STC quotes that were shared with me more than 2 years ago (gasp!) when I got myself out of something:

1) Relationships have been on the decline ever since women came out of the cave, looked around and said, "this isn’t so bad."

2) No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you’ll never get through it without your friends.

3) Maybe some women aren’t meant to be tamed. Maybe they’re supposed to run wild until they find someone — just as wild — to run with.

Bottom line: Whatever quote works for you… or doesn’t… you aren’t defined by your intimate relationships. Finding yourself after 2 years, 4 years, 7 years together can be daunting…but it’s also fun. Having good girlfriends in the mix doesn’t hurt either.

Best solutions: Go dancing with your girlfriends and/or have dinner parties with loads of wine and friendly faces. Rebound boys/girls aren’t so bad either.

Sorry kalo agak sedikit basi.. hihihihi..
Gara-gara bantuin acara nikahan one of a good friend seharian tadi, the questions about being a single lil bit disturbing my mind up till now!!!….
Hwuaaaaah… capek deeeeeh!

For Conny and Budi, happy marriage yaaaaa… may u both live happily ever after…

Curhat Colongan

o·ver·in·dulge

o·ver·in·dulge (vr-n-dlj)

v. o·ver·in·dulged, o·ver·in·dulg·ing, o·ver·in·dulg·es
1. To indulge (a desire, craving, or habit) to excess: overindulging a fondness for chocolate.
2. To indulge (a person) excessively: overindulges his children.
To indulge in something to excess.

I
think I over-indulged many times over this weekend. Company, visitors,
music, eating dinners out, walks for breakfasts and staying up way too
late. I’m paying for it today. Its only noonish and I’m tired and ready
for a nap. I’m learning to do what I want, when I want, and indulge in
what I wish. It’s tough sometimes being yourself out in the open and
letting people see you let your hair down, but I’m starting to just
feels right for me….and worrying less about everyone else. Thanks to
all who participated in this weekends events.

Seputar Kedodolan

hierarchy in action!

(from an email of a friend too… kurang kerjaan banget yaks gue… =P)

When the staff goes out together after work, they talk about football or basketball.

When middle management gets together, they talk about tennis or baseball.

Top management discusses golf.

Conclusion:
The higher up you are in management, the smaller your balls are =)

PS: I hope my boss hasn’t subscribed here!! wakakakakaka =))

Seputar Kedodolan

why worry??

from a friend’s email send to me today
thanks Veita.. =)

  There are only two things in life to worry about:
  Whether you are well
  or whether you are sick.

  If you are well,
  then there is nothing to worry about.

  But if you are sick,
  there are only two things to worry about:

  Whether you are going to get well
  or whether you are going to die.

  If you get well,
  then there is nothing to worry about.

  But if you die,
  there are only two things to worry about:

  Whether you are going to go to heaven
  or whether you are going to go to hell.

  If you go to heaven,
  then you have nothing to worry about.

  But if you go to hell,
  you’ll be so busy shaking hands with all your friends,
  that you won’t have time to worry!

  So, Why Worry?

  Be Happy

  Do not cry if the Sun sets at the end of the day,
  because the tears will not let you enjoy the beauty of the Stars.
                                  
   
   
   
   
   
   
                                 
                                  
                           

sound so simple, huh?
wha’d ya think?
i think we all are going to hell?
….hehehehehehehehehehehehehe….
=))

Music

can’t get this song out of my head

A co-worker walked into my office and asked what I was listening to on my earphone. I wonder what make he asked me that question.

I’m a huge music fan. It’s true. During my undergrad years while I was working on my thesis, all I could do was sit and listen to music. I had a discman and 3 or 4 full books of cds. I’d trade cds with friends, share music, and hit concerts and shows (usually in time for second set) after work. Some of the artists only sang to me once or twice…but others would sit in my discman for days. I’ve now upgraded. I don’t use a discman, I have an iPOD. It’s almost time to upgrade to a bigger one… My musical interests are varied and its so hard to be selective when choosing who to put on my pod.

The below song, by George Michael and Mary J. Blige, is at the top of my list of songs to put on repeat. I don’t know why this song suddenly crosses my mind all the way from home to the office this morning. And, according to my iTunes, it repeat for about 25 times up to now… *blush*

The reason I love this song : just read the lyric… it’s tell you everything… (and I love the video clip too!!!).

                               As – George Michael & Mary J. Blige

As around the sun the earth knows she’s revolving
And the rosebuds know to bloom in early may
Just as hate knows love’s the cure
You can rest your mind assure
That I’ll be loving you always

As now can’t reveal the mystery of tomorrow
But in passing will grow older every day
Just as all is born is new
Do you know what I say is true
That I’ll be loving you always

Until the rainbow burns the stars out in the sky
Until the ocean covers every mountain high
Until the day that 8x8x8 is 4
Until the day is the day that are no more

Did you know that true love asks for nothing
Her acceptance is the way we pay
Did you know that life has given love a guarantee
To last through forever and another day

As today I know I’m living but tomorrow
Could make me the past But that I mustn’t fear
I know deep in my mind The love of me I’ve left behind
Cause I’ll be loving you always

Until the rainbow burns the stars out in the sky
Until the ocean covers every mountain high
Until the dolphin flies and parrots live at sea
Until we dream of live and live becomes a dream

Until the day is night and night becomes the day
Until the trees and seas just up and fly away
Until the day that 8x8x8 is 4
Until the day that is the day that are no more

Did you know that true love asks for nothing
Her acceptance is the way we pay
Did you know that life has given love a guarantee
To last through forever and another day

As around the sun the earth knows she’s revolving
And the rosebuds know to bloom in early may
For now I know deep in my mind The love of me I’ve left behind
Cause I’ll be loving you always

Until the rainbow burns the stars out in the sky
Until the ocean covers every mountain high
Until the dolphin flies and parrots live at sea
Until we dream of live and live becomes a dream


Until the day is night and night becomes the day
Until the trees and seas just up and fly away
Until the day that 8x8x8 is 4
Until the day that is the day that are no more